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Replying to Topic: Help I'm an abused frum girl - need advice
Created On 8/15/17 2:09 AM by justafrumgirl


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justafrumgirl
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8/15/17 2:09 AM
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I'm a 17 year old frum girl. Last year I met an 19 year old guy. I had never really talked or hung out with boys before and it was 'fun' and 'exciting' so I gave him my number. We kept in touch and I went to visit him a couple months later. When I went to visit I got in his car and he drove to a deserted area and took advantage of me. I'm terrified to tell anyone because my parents would be horrified and I don't even know how to talk about it and I don't want them to want to press charges. But I feel like I need help because this is ruining me. I cry every single night and I've had many panic attacks. I feel so guilty like I brought this on myself because if I would have just been a good frum girl this would never have happened to me. I don't know what to do or how to get over this or if this has ever happened to anyone else. Should I tell my parents? Should I tell someone at school who can help me? Will this 'ruin' me ever having a chance to get married?? (
 
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8/15/17 9:27 AM
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(((HUGS)))I'm so sorry you are going thru this. It is very important to get help-you will get over this but you need help. There are organizations to turn to. I can think of amudim.org . There are probably others as well.
 
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