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Created On 1/29/14 10:09 AM by I'mTrying


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I'mTrying
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1/29/14 10:09 AM
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I've been telling myself it's not so, nobody here hates me and is purposely not answering my posts. But the voice of logic is getting quieter and i can't seem to silence the part of me that thinks i did something wrong and now i'm done for life. That's why I haven't been posting much.
Don't want to put anyone on the spot, so I"m not expecting any answers. The only thing i ask is NOT to confirm that i'm right - I feel that would be too much for me to handle....
 
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1/29/14 10:26 AM
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I stopped posting for the same reason. I was never getting responses, and was SURE people thought I posted for attention, so i kind of gave up.... I'm trying to seek "live" support but it's really difficult to find, and besides sometimes one feels the need to say something annonymosly. I can totaly relate to you, but I'm pretty sure that wasn't the reason they didn't answer....


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1/29/14 10:33 AM
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I did a search, and I can try to respond to some of your posts.
 
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1/29/14 10:39 AM
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I'm sorry if I missed some posts. You certainly don't deserve that happening to you. Please don't stop posting. Let's try again.
 
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1/29/14 4:54 PM
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I'm also sorry I missed your posts. I'm certainly not ignoring either of you on purpose. And there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting attention! Please keep posting!

It could be that sometimes I don't reply, especially in this section, because I don't know what to say. I don't have personal experience with personality disorders. But I'd like to be able to offer support and (((hugs))).
 
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I'mTrying
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1/29/14 6:58 PM
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Thank you Toy and Keepclimbing and hopeful mommy for caring enough to answer. It's nothing really specific it's just a 'feeling'.... that's why I posted here in personality disorders bc its my borderline talking. That's the voice that is dominant inside me.
Gad- you brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for taking the time and making the effort to show me that I belong here.
 
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gad
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You're welcome

May Hashem show us all that we belong, and bring us the geulah sheleima now.

Hope to hear good news
 
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1/30/14 12:34 AM
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OF COURSE YOU BELONG HERE!!!!!!!

I personally feel like you guys are my cyber- family I don't always respond because sometimes I'm just not up to it or I have a lot going on but I hope you guys can understand that it's not personal....

Please keep on posting, both of you!!
 
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I'mTrying
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1/30/14 10:31 AM
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Thanks so much guys.
 
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1/30/14 3:01 PM
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im so sorry imtrying, lifes been busy but i shudve tried harder to be there for you. i love your posts.youre so accepting and empathetic. how are you feeling today?


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Sorry I'mTrying and toy, I didn't mean to ignore either of you. I don't post much altogether these days for various reasons, and like hopefulmommy, I also refrain from posting in this section. I do have experience with personality disorders, but it's still hard to know what to say without stepping on people's toes. Everyone has different sensitivities.


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I'mTrying
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2/1/14 10:23 PM
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Its ok. I "know" that really my perception is off....
Thanks for confirming that.


Edited: 2/28/14 at 4:02 PM by I'mTrying
 
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