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TOPIC TITLE: A Snake
Created On 6/2/13 11:58 PM
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MoMo
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6/2/13 11:58 PM
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I know you might not believe me and no one outside my family will ever believe how heartless my mother is when others aren't around.

The problem is that she Is a totally different person when other people are around so no one can believe that she would consistently and brutally put other people (and her children) down, make other people feel totally stupid about themselves,  just so she can look good. Not only doesn't she care about my emotions and how i feel not only am i missing a mother who i can turn to not only did i grow up without love and understanding in addition to all that my mother is the single most hurtful person i know. Strangers would never hurt me as badly as she did/does and as consistently and brutally as she did/does.

There is a special place in gehenim for reshoim like her.
In her selfishness and bad midoss she took my sensitive heart and crushed it stabbed it and burnt it. Then she denied it and makes me feel stupid for the struggles i face.

There are no words for her evilness She brought a holocaust onto me.

You'll think I'm radical because you can't even fathom such selfishness and evilness no one can until you experience it.

People denied the holocaust as old wives tales because how could such things really take place but after the holocaust there were thousands of people to corroborate what really happened there were gas chambers and ovens but with my mother there is no proof.

Also she usually delivers her criticism and put downs in an underhanded fashion -with faces, gestures, and seemingly innocent comments.

She is a snake.
 
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6/3/13 10:09 AM
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Wow. I really feel for u. U grew up in gihenom. I hope u dont live there anymore.
 
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Lasthope
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6/3/13 10:29 AM
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Wow. I really feel for u. U grew up in gihenom. I hope u dont live there anymore.
 
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6/7/13 1:25 AM
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Sorry Momo. That must be really hard to not have your mom's support...your mom who is supposed to be the person you trust and can turn to. Maybe talk about it in therapy and just have the knowledge that BE"H in the future you won't do that to your children.
 
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6/7/13 5:20 AM
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Momo, unfortunately, I can relate too well! Having grown up in a horribly abusive home myself.
All I can say is, it's good that you are aware of what is happening around you. I was in denial most of my life.
Get away from home as fast as you can and don't go back.
You CAN have a productive life despite your background.
Good Luck! May Hashem help us all!
 
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keep climbing
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6/10/13 4:49 PM
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Momo, are you o.k.?
 
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MoMo
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6/11/13 10:40 PM
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Thanks for asking!
Yes I am OK.

I am busier, though.
I would like to keep in touch with you. PM me.

There is so much going on in my life now I wish I had the patience and time to relate all of it here..


Edited: 6/12/13 at 6:23 AM by MoMo
 
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keep climbing
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6/12/13 1:26 PM
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Email me at keepclimbing@thejnet.com

Have a good day!
 
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channafofanna
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6/13/13 5:32 PM
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You ok with being busy? I hope so! Hopefuly being busy is helping you not think to much!!
Im glad you have what to do during the day now!
 
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