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TOPIC TITLE: Sad and Alone
Created On 7/21/13 1:37 AM
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toy123
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7/21/13 1:37 AM
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I'm feeling so sad and alone! I don't know what to do anymore. I don't post here (although I do read the threads) because I feel that they don't help people and it's just annoying everyone.... I can't take this anymore....


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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MoMo
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7/21/13 2:15 AM
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I don't feel annoyed by your posts!

What's making you sad and alone?
 
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HopefulMommy
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7/21/13 2:46 AM
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Please post, toy! We all care about you, and would like to help if we can. (((Hugs)))
 
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channafofanna
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7/21/13 2:58 PM
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Yes Toy123, PLEASE POST !!!! We WANT to hear from you as long as you are willing to share!!!
It is definitley not anoying to have someone to share the lonlinesss with....
 
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toy123
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7/21/13 9:46 PM
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I have vacation now and really want to go away for a few days. My father is in Israel so I thought it would be a great idea for my mother and I to go somewhere. First my mother said yes then no then she's like call up ur friends and make plans with them as if she doesn't know I have no friends. . I said thanks for the compliment...


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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channafofanna
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Oy! That must feel like such a letdown, not to mention that you feel like your mother "let you down" (sorry, to corny!!)
((((((((HUGS))))))))
 
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MoMo
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7/22/13 12:38 AM
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Oy!!!
It's my mother's type to do the same type of thing :'(
 
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wishtobehappy
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7/23/13 12:11 PM
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I'm sorry you're feeling so lonely, toy. (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
 
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toy123
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I'm supposed to be switching therapists because I need twice a week and my therapist is in the clinic only once a week. Also she feels like someone else can give me more than she can give me. I'm seeing her tomorrow and just finished writing her a letter. I feel so abandoned and rejected. On top of that I feel sad, depressed and most of all alone. I have no one. Really no one.... I just cry myself to sleep.....


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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HopefulMommy
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7/24/13 1:35 AM
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Good luck with the new therapist! Hopefully she (or he) will make you feel that you are not alone. Meanwhile, we're here for you.
 
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toy, i'm sorry you're having sucha a hard time. i've had to switch therapists against my will in the past and it stinks. i've also been on my own and all alone and that wasnt' too good either (it was before I even had a therapist.) i hope and daven things get better soon.


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MoMo
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7/25/13 1:02 AM
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How's the new therapist Toy?
 
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toy123
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7/25/13 12:54 PM
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I didn't switch yet. I'm in a clinic. Don't know when the switch will take place. Although I do know very soon.


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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Switching therapists is really tough. It's very normal to feel sad. I've had a really hard time with it in the past too. The upside is that maybe the new one will be able to help you more. hope you feel better.
 
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MoMo
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7/26/13 12:00 AM
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I just met with a new therapist today!
It's not fun at all!!
 
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7/29/13 2:36 PM
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Good luck Toy and MoMo, I know new therapists are kind of torturous. Hopefully it will pay off in the near future (amen).
 
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