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toy123
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I'm so jealous of all of you. You all have some victories. I have NONE. I'm wracking my brain to come up with something but unfortunately there's NOTHING!!!! I'm a walking dead person....


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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You fasted.

That is an enormous achievement.

Sometimes the same act can be easier for one person, and more difficult for another person.
And it says that G-d rewards according to the effort.
 
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I can't say I read all 2 pages but was as saw was really inspiring congrats to all.

>I'm wracking my brain to come up with something
I think being able to try to think of something is a victory in itself more then once people here have been so down they wouldn't even have the strength or courage to try.

kol tuv


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"Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming." - Coach John Wooden
 
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deep fried snicker bars are healthy right???


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All the king's horses and all the king's men couldn't put Humpty Dumpty together again.
 
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MoMo
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lol
 
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mouse
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Toy, you're here and that's something.


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I got the house looking presentable...at least the rooms my father in law will see. . I had serious doubts that would happen but it all came together...except the bathtub....good enough in my book.


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Wow! That's amazing.
I don't like cleaning either. Does anyone????
 
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That is amazing! My house is a big mess right now. Fortunately, we'll be eating in the sukkah . I've been cooking though. (Momo, I'd love to email you some brisket .)

My huge victory on Yom Kippur is that I actually went to shul for Mussaf, for the first time in years. It felt good to do something normal on Yom Kippur and not just stay in bed.

Toy, I think you're underestimating yourself. Yom Kippur is very hard! Sleeping through it is actually a much better idea than being awake and miserable.
 
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MoMo
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Thanks Hopefulmom!
Send it to my 'hot'mail account so that I won't have to reheat it...

Oy, Hashem see our struggles and see how hard we have it!!
We want to do the right things but you can't make everything so ****'en hard all the time!!

Give me a break!!!!
Or at least help me accept and deal with things. One person can only handle so much!!!

Oy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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MoMo
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I showed up to four different classes today.
I exercised. I vented my anger and frustration on stones.
I took care of a lot of things.
I'm running in empty emotional (this is a negative)
 
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Lol. I think you're doing great, Momo. You're doing the best you can, with the circumstances and challenges you were given.
 
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I survived a 3 day yom tov without going insane. It was really hard even though my favorite relative was there.


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Agreed, Munkster. It was really hard.
But better than Rosh Hashanah.
 
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I didn't do well at all this Yom Tov. I regressed in terms of my social anxieties.

But I did daven more than in the past. I exercised tonight.
I studied a little over Yom Tov.
I tried (although not successfully) to be more accepting of myself.

It was rough.
 
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I'm sorry your Yom Tov was rough. Perhaps the last days will get easier. Regardless you still did things that are positive. That's great.

Keep climbing....You're right but these 3 dayers are grinding on my nerves.


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Munkster, you should know that when I was beating up on myself for my shortcomings I thought about you and how you try to accept yourself..
 
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Thanks...you made me happy today...I'm also working on accepting myself.


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