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TOPIC TITLE: Mad, Not Sad
Created On 7/19/15 6:10 AM
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I am going to be Mad, not Sad. Shabbos is so Hard for me because of all the restrictions. The 9 days are a pain in the neck. No one appreciates me and I have done so much for them! Mad creates energy, while sad sucks every last ounce of energy from me. Get it?
 
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LOL....I totally get it. Thanks for the thoughts as I"m having a rough spot now and am left wwith my on thoughts and not much company . What you wrote makes total sense. (I may need emergency surgery.....trying to get through weekend -- I'm not in mood to be in major pain.)


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Oy - I so relate to the mad- anger giving energy! So sorry you guys are struggling...

Mouse - keep us posted about the surgery - I am keeping you in my prayers....

KeepClimbing - I so relate to the feeling of being unappreciated - when I began backing off of some of what I did for others - setting some boundaries (out of madness :-) ) Strange enough - they began to appreciate me more.

Take care of yourselves
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After I am sad, after I am mad, I will try to accept. I truly believe that acceptance is the key to my mental health. If I could be "mekabel" what Hashem sends me, believe that it is for my good, I would be well. Acceptance is the anchor that grounds me in sanity. Sometimes I can accept, and I feel much calmer. I know it is a journey. I just hope that I will arrive.
 
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Trying right now to accept. It isn't easy, I'lll tell you that. I'm slowly realizing I'm going to be in pain for a bit longer and surgery is likely . If you don't hear from me, I'm ok....just some body parts going out.


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Avoided surgery ....glad for once.


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And got painkillers


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Great!
 
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I'm feeling really sad again. Will this craziness ever end? I want to give up.
 
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I can't deal with myself anymore. The pain is too much to bear.
 
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Maybe you could speak to a friend or relative.
Depression thrives on secrecy.
 
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Thanks, shver.
I did go to my dr. yest, and I feel better b"h.
 
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Oy Keep Climbing I'm so sorry how are you now?
 
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I get a few good days and then I slip and feel really down again. It's quite a roller coaster, but I'm o.k.
 
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Oy I know what that's like
 
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