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TOPIC TITLE: Feeling like a failure
Created On 10/26/15 7:43 PM
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mouse
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10/26/15 7:43 PM
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I'm feeling like a complete failure. My daughter is back to homeschooling after less than 2 months at school. It just didn't work out . I want so much to cut but my daughter knows about what she calls "self abuse" and she's the sort to see it and say something -- to me and to her therapist -- neither of which I want. The urge to cut right now is so great I don't know what to do. It is freaking me out. Tonight I also found out my son has been using a phrase that is highly offensive. He thought it meant go away. He didn't realize he's become the lunatic who curses everyone out. He said he'd stop -- and don't get me wrong, I'm grateful for that -- but oy the poor kid has used it on quite a few of his classmates. So much for making friends . It's funny but at same time it isn't funny. Feeling so down .


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Geneshe Gruen
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10/29/15 9:16 AM
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that must be so painful!
im sorry and unfortunately i know that pain of failure all too well. I sometimes feel as if it was a mistake i was created in the first place. whatever i touch, wherever i go and whatever i do-ENDS UP IN FAILURE. im a dissapointment to everyone and cant seem to manage anything, as hard as i try. Really, somewhere deep down i want to continue living and move upwardards-connect all my peices and put my life back together again..but these feelings are very deep down n unaccessable most of the time, when im bogged down by the heaviness of everyday misery!!
 
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11/4/15 6:56 PM
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Gets worse . She is ill now with a possibly serious condition. . No one's fault but doesn't make anything easier. In way I am relieved that sshe isn't in school since we have so many doc. appts.


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11/6/15 2:15 PM
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No one is here and no one cares. Lonely world.


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11/10/15 10:07 AM
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I'm so sorry Mouse!!!!
 
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11/12/15 12:20 AM
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Oh no! Refuah sheleima to your daughter!! How are you managing?
 
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mouse
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11/22/15 6:36 PM
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Went to do blood test last week. Having rough time and dont feel supported


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Edited: 11/22/15 at 6:36 PM by mouse
 
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12/1/15 12:27 AM
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Refuah Sheleimah to your daughter - it hurts so much when our children are in pain.....

Take Good Care - Stay strong (even when you don't feel it) - May hashem stay with you and give you help, peace, support and comfort!
 
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We got the blood test results. She is sort of ok. Not out of the dark, but not as bad as we thought. She is just being really careful now about what she eats and does that can effect her health later (or sooner) in life. She is having major anxiety. Hopefully it will be resolved soon.


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Praying for you and her!
 
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