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Created On 12/22/09 9:52 PM
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Just wanted to tell everyone that I feel a little better these last couple of days b''H.
Thanks e/o for all your support!!!! Couldn't have done it without you guys!!
 
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yay, that's great to hear!
 
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12/22/09 11:48 PM
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Good going! Keep it up!
And remember - you may not have been able to do it without us, but you definitely would not have been able to do it without yourself. YOU are the main person in this, and it's the work that YOU put in that helps you. So the fact that you're feeling good means that you put in the effort, that you tried, and you had a success.
So, yay for you!


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Dr. Lynn, Psy.D.
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Thank you for sharing that. May your success give others chizuk!
a lynn
 
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I echo the above thoughts.

I hope that you will continue to have good news to post.
 
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Yah
Kol Tuv


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Bad news: I'm not dealing quite so well anymore! Many serious issues have arisen and I'm falling sooo fast! Need help!
 
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(((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
hope things get better quickly


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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They're not! I want to die so badly right now!! I'm just to scared to do it! I'm pathetic and deserve to die so why doesn't gd just take me away now?
 
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sorry that your feeling so bad.
i know that feeling.
just want to say that i care and hope you feel better real quick.
((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))
btw maybe you can call your doctor or therapist? just a suggestion.....


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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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Thanks toy123. Can't call either cuz then my parents will freak out so will just have to deal with it on my own... Good luck with e/t urself! I wish I could take away everyone on this sites pain. I really do!!!
 
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What's going on?
a lynn
 
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Can't live like this! Depression is intense and just wanna die. Don't know what to do!!
 
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Hope things get better soon.
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yea was wondering how things are?
hope they're better.
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Sometimes you need to run away just to see who will follow you.

Sometimes when I say "I'm okay", I want someone to look me in the eyes, hug me tight and say "I know you are not".

Just because I'm smiling doesn't mean I'm happy.
 
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Things are ok- not wonderful but not terrible. Just confusing- still want to die though No point in suffering like this anymore!
 
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Are there any activities you can do that make you feel good about yourself?
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I thought I did things that I like doing etc- all this stuff pops into my head even when I could be having the best time of my life. That's what's so weird. Is this normal?
 
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its as healthy or unhealthy as i am - who promised more thn five minuetsof REAL happiness?
but isnt it better to be happy and get deppresed then not have those "breaks" at all?
 
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What kind of things intrude your thoughts?
a lynn
 
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any kind of thought ranging from I hate myself to I am suicidal and want to die to I will do it tonight to was I really abused and why did it happen?
makes living kind of hard...
 
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are you able to push away the thoughts at all?
I know it's not always possible- sometimes they're too intense, but are there times you're able to either distract yourself or just really push them out for a bit?
Or are they so intense all the time it's impossible to do?
 
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Most of the time they're quite intense, sometimes if I'm around people who are very distracting (nieces and nephews or the like) then I can but most of the time not. I just realized that I'm a very messed up person and nothing I do (probably) will fix that.
 
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what makes you any more messed up than anyone else in the world? im not going to say any specifics, at risk of offending somone else, but just think of polititians- in comparison, im sure your 100%- and theyre considered the best of the people
 
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hugs,

I just wanted to let you know that you are definitely not alone in doubting whether or not the abuse happened. thats extremely normal with survivors. in my case, i'm pretty sure at this point that it did happen. yet, those persistent doubts still creep in every now and then.

i also wanted to let you know that you are NOT messed up. the fact that you worry about being messed up PROVES that you're not, in my opinion. i can tell you from experience that the REALLY messed up people seem to be CLUELESS about how messed up they are. its like how i used to be kind of embarrassed about going to therapy until i realized that very often the people who need it the MOST dont go. i know people who SOOO NEED help but refuse to admit it and go and get it. i look at them and feel better about myself and about the fact that i AM getting the help i need.

i hope you're doing okay.


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i know that wasnt meant for me , ChannieL, but thanks for saying that anyway, i always am scared im "special" and whenever i ask people just lauch at me or say NOOOOO! but i dont know if theyr right. im still gona worry abt it 24/7 butthanks for saying it... its good to think otherwise sometimes (or all the time , but thats unrealistic- especialy scince i really am "special".
 
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