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Created On 4/29/12 10:22 PM
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ayelet_hashachar
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4/29/12 10:22 PM
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Sometimes all I want is to cry and be comforted and nurtured. This world sometime seems like such a lie, it pains me. So many people suffering from mental illness and not getting help because no one is perceptive or caring enough to notice, or from fear of stigma, aka "What if people talk?" I love people who truly empathize and nurture, who tell me my pain pains them. The stigma to me is heartbreaking and infuriating. I don't understand what purpose it serves. Sometimes all I want to do is cry a sea of tears, an outpour of my raw emotions...Sometimes I feel as if I am pained because I seek truth in a world of lies...

Anyone with me on this one?


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"This world sometime seems like such a lie, it pains me."
it says that this world is an 'almo dishikro', a world of lies.

"So many people suffering from mental illness and not getting help because no one is perceptive or caring enough to notice, or from fear of stigma, aka "What if people talk?"
things are improving, though it’s not yet perfect.

"I love people who truly empathize and nurture, who tell me my pain pains them."
they tell the story of two drunks sitting on a bench. suddenly one drunk turns to the other and says,"you don't love me." the other drunk says, "no, i do love you." the first drunk says again, "no, you don't love me." the other says, "why do you say i don't love you." the first, "ok, tell me what's paining me." the other, "how should i know what's paining you?" the first, "that's why i said you don't love me. if you loved me, you would know what's paining me."

"The stigma to me is heartbreaking and infuriating. I don't understand what purpose it serves. Sometimes all I want to do is cry a sea of tears, an outpour of my raw emotions..."
you're not alone.

"Sometimes I feel as if I am pained because I seek truth in a world of lies..."
You are at least searching for truth. It’s the people who don’t search, who are to be truly pitied.

may we share good news very soon.
 
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channafofanna
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5/7/12 10:40 AM
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Tottaly with you on that!!!!!
(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))
 
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Dr. Lynn, Psy.D.
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5/7/12 11:25 AM
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I agree with gad. stick with the seekers with open hearts! you are not alone!
a lynn
 
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ayelet_hashachar
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Awww, thanks guys


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