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TOPIC TITLE: Will i marry someone like my mother?
Created On 7/4/07 1:46 AM
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7/4/07 1:46 AM
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I'm sure i don't want to marry someone with control issues, like my mother. But it has been proven that people subconciously choose a wife with the same emotional problems as their mother, because they're trying to get their mother's love from their wife, so, without realizing it, they choose someone who will recreate their childhood for them.
I'd appreciate hearing advice on this, and I'd love to discuss it.
(This applies to girls too, I just used boys as an example for convenience, so, ladies and gentlemen, please respond ).

Working on my issues in therapy, making progress.

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7/6/07 6:53 AM
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hey shtark, you should discuss this in a forum for mental health, you prob didn't realize that this is about disabilities. maybe hat's why nobody's responding.

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